In this episode I have the opportunity to speak with Alana Sharps, founder of the SurThrive Tribe, a high conflict divorce and child custody consultant, and best-selling author of “Was It My Fault?: An Abuse Survivor’s Story”.


Alana shares her personal journey through a toxic marriage filled with narcissistic abuse, her navigation through the complexities of the family court system, and how she emerged stronger to assist others facing similar battles.


We look into the emotional and legal hurdles of high conflict divorces, the vital role of self-care and trauma therapy, and the importance of not becoming a victim of the divorce process. Alana also highlights the significance of realistic expectations when dealing with attorneys and offers practical tips on managing legal and financial challenges.


Alana's courage and resilience are truly inspirational, and her commitment to helping others is nothing short of remarkable. Whether you're in the midst of a high conflict divorce or eager to learn more about navigating these tumultuous waters, this episode is filled with wisdom, practical advice, and a powerful message of hope and empowerment. Tune in and be prepared to be inspired by Alana Sharps' compelling story and expert guidance.


About the Guest:

Alana Sharps, founder of SurThrive Tribe, carries a wealth of experience as both a High Conflict Divorce and Child Custody Consultant and a Best Selling Author. Her expertise extends beyond her professional achievements; it's rooted in her personal triumphs.


Having navigated through the complexities of a toxic marriage entwined with narcissistic abuse, Alana emerged as a committed advocate for those facing similar trials. Her story is one of transformation—from a victim to an empowered survivor—and it fuels her dedication to guiding others through the challenging landscapes of domestic strife.


To connect with Alana:


Instagram: @alanasharps


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alanasharpsauthor


Tik Tok: @alanasharps


Website: https://www.surthrivetribe.com

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC.


To find out more about divorce coaching: www.divorcecoach4women.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/


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