Episode 131 - Finding Freedom From Secrets

Today, I have the opportunity to have an honest and compelling conversation with Nattolie Chilton, an international best-selling author, trauma-informed speaker, and activist. Known for her groundbreaking book "Unsilenced," Nattolie delves into the often overlooked yet crucial topics of domestic violence, the burdens of keeping life-altering secrets, and the journey to creating healthy, functional relationships.


Through her own personal experiences and professional insights, Nattolie sheds light on the long-term impacts of childhood trauma, the red flags of abusive relationships, and the importance of slow, mindful connections in developing authentic and loving partnerships.


This episode offers invaluable advice and support for anyone navigating the complexities of troubled relationships and the path to healing. Tune in to explore these significant issues and discover how you can break free from the chains of secrecy and abuse to live a more empowered, insightful life.


About the Guest:

Nattolie Chilton is an international best selling co-author, trauma informed speaker, and activist, known for her photo, 'Pain Re-Purposed' used in ARTXFREEDOM Traffickinghub campaign to highlight PornHubs criminal activity. Co-author to International Bestseller, New Release, Ripple Effect of Impact.


Her Upcoming Book, Unsilenced, is based upon this premise:


Predators Thrive in Silence and Words Buried Alive Never Die

By Feeling and Speaking Out Painful Truths, We Can Heal.

It's Hard But Doable


To connect with Nattolie:

Website: www.breakupwithsecrets.com

IG: @unsilencednattolie

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC.


To find out more about divorce coaching: www.divorcecoach4women.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/


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