Episode 146 - Moving Forward After Loss and Change

In today’s episode, I have the opportunity to speak with Rachel S. Heslin, an expert in individual and social psychology. Rachel is passionate about helping people become more flexible, resilient, and adept at managing change. Her journey began early, as her father, a clinical psychologist, introduced her to neurolinguistic programming at the age of nine, sparking a lifelong fascination with the human mind.


Rachel's path has been deeply influenced by her personal experiences, particularly her marriage. She shares how the challenges and growth in her relationship with her husband were pivotal in her life and her thinking. Rachel shares the profound loss she faced with her husband’s sudden passing, using it as a catalyst to delve deeper into her understanding of grief and resilience.


Rachel’s recent TEDx talk, titled “A Defense of Victim Mentality,” underscores her commitment to fostering compassion and understanding for others. This talk, given on the eve of the second anniversary of her husband’s death, was a heartfelt tribute filled with her wisdom and desire to assist others navigating their own struggles.


Listeners are encouraged to explore how thoughts, feelings, and actions interplay in shaping their lives, and how embracing these elements leads to personal growth, even in challenging times. Rachel’s insights are practical and helpful for anyone dealing with loss.


About the Guest:

Rachel S. Heslin has been immersed in the study of both individual and social psychology for decades, with an emphasis on how interactions between groups and individuals affect our identity and experience. She is fascinated by why people and organizations act the way they do, especially when those actions seem counter-productive.


Through her company, The Fullness of Your Power, she uses her expertise and insight to help others become more flexible, resilient, and successful as the world around us continues to change. Rachel is currently the author of two books: Navigating Life: 8 Different Strategies to Guide Your Way, and Rituals of Release: How to Make Room for Your New Life.


To connect with Rachel:

Website: https://www.thefullnessofyourpower.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelsheslin/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rsheslin/

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC.


To find out more about divorce coaching: www.divorcecoach4women.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/


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