Episode 178 - Choosing Lawyers, Alimony Myths, and Divorce Tips

Let's discuss alimony and how to choose a divorce attorney. In this episode, I talk with Sandra Fava, a seasoned family law attorney and the founding partner of Fava Law in Morristown, New Jersey. Sandra talks about her path into family law, reflecting on her background as a first-generation American and the impact her own family's experience with divorce had on her career choice. She highlights her commitment to transparent, client-focused service and her encouragement of alternative dispute resolution, such as mediation, to help clients navigate divorce's complex emotional and legal landscape.

The conversation covers the differences clients might experience between large law firms and boutique practices, touching on the importance of personal connection, expertise, and accessibility in choosing the right legal representation. Sandra urges listeners to think carefully about who they hire, emphasizing the value of interviewing multiple attorneys to find the right fit in both skills and personality.

A significant part of our discussion focuses on alimony, dispelling common myths and providing up-to-date information on how alimony works in New Jersey and many parts of the country today. Sandra explains how it has evolved from the days of permanent support to a more nuanced approach based on the duration of marriage and specific circumstances, underlining the importance of realistic expectations.

With a warm approach, Sandra encourages listeners to consider the emotional realities of divorce, the necessity of trust and information when pursuing mediation, and the need for thoughtful decision-making through every step of the process. This episode offers practical insights for anyone facing divorce and looking for guidance on building a supportive legal team.

About the Guest:

Sandra Fava is known for her ability to provide clear, practical advice while also offering unwavering support during challenging times. She is a skilled negotiator and litigator, but she also believes in exploring alternative dispute resolution methods, such as mediation, whenever possible. Through Fava Law, Sandra is proud to offer a client-centered approach that focuses on open communication, transparency, and achieving the best possible outcome for her clients.

To connect with Sandra:

Website: https://www.favalawnj.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sandrafavabusinesspage/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/favalawllc/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandrafava/

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC.


To find out more about divorce coaching: www.divorcecoach4women.com

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/


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