Episode 183 - Smart Ways to Hold Onto The Marital House

If you're in the thick of a divorce or just thinking about what life would look like after, the big question of "What happens to the house?" probably feels overwhelming. That's precisely what we're digging into this week. I am joined by Jeff Landers, CDFA, CDLP, and the founder of Divorce House Sense®, LLC.

Jeff is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and a Certified Divorce Lending Professional. He's worked with nearly a thousand people navigating divorce, written seven books on the subject, and contributed his expertise everywhere from Forbes to Huffington Post. If anyone can demystify the process of keeping or letting go of the family home, it's Jeff.

We talk about why the home is way more than just another line on the asset sheet, the emotional issues and hidden financial pitfalls, and why talking to a specialist early on can save you significant stress, money, and heartache. Jeff shares stories of clients who've made tough choices, from those with children trying to keep stability to "gray divorce" couples without kids at home and everyone in between.

You'll gain insight into everything from calculating if you can afford to keep the house to what happens when financial plans go sideways. Plus, Jeff shares practical tips on negotiating with your ex, what your divorce lawyer might not know about the mortgage process, and why you definitely don't want to be "house rich and cash poor."

So if the thought of the family home is keeping you up at night, or you know someone facing this crossroads, settle in, and get ready for some expert advice that might just change how you approach this big divorce decision.

About the Guest:

Jeffrey A. Landers, CDFA, CDLP, is the founder of Divorce House Sense®, LLC, whose mission is to help divorcing people who want to keep their marital home. Jeff is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA™), Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP™), licensed Real Estate Broker and licensed Mortgage Originator. Jeff has written 6 published books with 18,000+ copies sold nationwide focusing on the financial aspects of divorce for women, as well as contributing articles regularly to Forbes.com, The Huffington Post, DailyWorth, More.com, Lawyers.com, and many other online publications.

Jeff's 7th book, Divorce House Sense®: How to Keep Your Marital Home So You Can Move On, Not Out® was recently published. He is a go-to expert for the financial aspects of divorce for women, interviewed extensively by CBS and FOX Television News, as well as The Wall Street Journal, Dow Jones, The Miami Herald, Smart Money, Consumer Reports, and The Christian Science Monitor. Jeff earned his BA degree in psychology from Columbia University and studied law at Pace University School of Law.

For Jeff's gift of a discount on his book, use code TDS when checking out at https://divorcehousesense.com/

To connect with Jeff:

Website: DivorceHouseSense.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jefflanders/

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC.


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