Episode 193 - Navigating Divorce Stress With Real Life Strategies

In this episode, Mardi Winder-Adams sits down with Kim Schreffler for a compassionate and practical conversation about the journey through divorce and the often-overlooked process of reclaiming one’s identity afterward. Kim draws on her many years supporting others through major transitions, not only as a phone psychic but as a steady presence for those facing some of life’s biggest hurdles. She discusses how divorce is not just a legal or logistical challenge, but truly the end of a chapter, what she calls “the death of a relationship and the life you thought you’d have.”

Together, Mardi and Kim explore why it’s essential to acknowledge and allow room for grief, rather than simply powering through. They touch on the all-too-common struggle of shouldering every responsibility alone, especially for women who may feel pressured to keep the household running smoothly, even as things fall apart. Kim gently encourages listeners to relinquish the idea of being “Superwoman” and instead accept help in both big and small ways, whether someone cooking a meal, folding laundry, or providing emotional support.

Finances are a critical element of moving forward, and Kim shares her own story of financial surprises during her divorce. She stresses the need to organize assets and debts, establish a basic budget, and approach things step by step, always keeping the tasks manageable and allowing for breathing room.

The conversation turns to regaining a sense of self after divorce. Kim recommends small daily acts of kindness, like enjoying a favorite meal on fine china or turning an everyday shower into a small relaxation ritual. Mardi and Kim discuss the value of creating new routines and traditions, particularly if children are involved, and the importance of allowing joy back into life through simple pleasures. They also offer a word of caution about oversharing online, emphasizing privacy and self-protection during this vulnerable time.

Kim closes the conversation with the reminder that, while the light at the end of the tunnel can feel distant, it’s not an illusion and, with time, the future may hold more than you imagined. Both Mardi and Kim provide reassurance and practical tips for anyone moving through divorce, highlighting the small steps and supportive communities that make recovery and renewal possible.

About the Guest:

Kim Schreffler is a passionate advocate for embracing life’s transitions, having experienced firsthand the loss that comes with the end of a relationship and the dreams it represented. She understands that such endings carry real grief and trauma, and acknowledges the pain—recognizing that it "really does suck." Yet, Kim believes in honoring the grieving process and encourages others to not only breathe through the loss, but also to remain open to new beginnings. Through her journey, Kim inspires others to find hope and possibility on the other side of pain, reminding us that when we accept the end of one chapter, we create space for something potentially even better.

To connect with Kim:

Website: https://www.getwithkim.com