There are many ways that divorce can impact your life both in the present as well as the future. Traditional healer Ben Oofana is known for his profound healing abilities, nurtured under the guidance of a traditional doctor of the Kiowa tribe. In today's conversation, we'll dive deep into Ben's transformative healing journey, his steadfast commitment to the sacred practices of the vision quest, and the remarkable impact of his gifts.


Ben brings to light the profound effect that modern distractions like social media have on our ability to heal and remain focused on our emotions. He shares the necessity of deep engagement with traditional healing practices to process the emotional trauma often intensified by life-changing events such as divorce. We'll discuss the critical role of being fully present and authentically processing emotional pain, lessons that are essential for those navigating the complexities of ending a relationship.


As Ben shares his wisdom on the importance of facing and healing from our deepest wounds, we also explore how unprocessed emotions can carry over and influence our future relationships. We'll discuss how traditional healing provides a holistic approach that incorporates meditation, deep tissue bodywork, and traditional practices into the recovery from emotional traumas.


And for our listeners going through personal challenges, Ben graciously offers a free ebook on overcoming heartbreak and an opportunity for a heart-mending strategy session. His insights are essential for anyone looking to emerge from their struggles with renewed strength and clarity.


About the Guest:


Ben Oofana is a gifted healer who began his training at the age of twenty with one of the last surviving traditional doctors among the Kiowa Indian Tribe. Ben helps people to heal their bodies, minds, broken hearts and other deep emotional wounds while helping them to increase their capacity to love and be loved, realize their true potential and fulfill their life's purpose


To get Ben’s free ebook: The Essentials of Getting Over Your Breakup and Moving On


To connect with Ben:

Website: https://benoofana.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ben.oofana

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-oofana8/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC.


To find out more about divorce coaching: www.divorcecoach4women.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/


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